развитие 8 лет
Jan. 21st, 2007 12:54 pmTips for Parenting an 8-Year-Old
Social and Emotional Development
At 8, your child has a strong need to “belong.”
- Talk to your child about peer pressure.
- Listen and discuss his concerns about friends and school performance.
- Take advantage of his interest in money to teach about costs and the importance of saving toward a goal.
- Develop moral why some things are right or wrong.
- Recognize your child’s need for privacy and secrets. Give him a locking drawer or box.
- finger control is quite refined
- stamina increases; can run and swim further
- can converse at an almost adult level
- reading may be a major interest
- seeks to understand the reasons for things
- begins to feel competent in skills and have preferences for some activities and subjects
- thinking is organized and logical
- begins to recognize concept of reversibility (4+2=6 and 6–2=4)
Social and Emotional Development
- has strong need for love and understanding, especially from mother
- can be helpful, cheerful, and pleasant as well as rude, bossy, and selfish
- may be quite sensitive and overly dramatic
- emotions change quickly
- impatient; finds waiting for special events torturous
- makes friends easily; develops close friends of same sex
- favors group play, clubs, and team sports; wants to feel part of a group
- more influenced by peer pressure
- can be obsessed with, and motivated by money